the spin cycle ...
this weeks topic is:
favoritism DOES exist.
in which she challenges us to dust off (out?) our archives and find a post (or posts?) that we loved, that
and this is my (current) spin on it. (i had to tweak some of the colors a little, you know me.)
this was a smart-ass letter written to some crazy weirdo that confronted me in a children's clothing store ...
hi sir...i know that you really don't care about me or my family, but i wanted to thank you for giving me the opportunity to have a discussion with my four-year-old about racism and "naughty words".
gosh, i've been meaning to explain why some people don't like others that are just a little different from them. i've been meaning to explain and pop her little bubble of obliviousness to the color of people's skin. i've been meaning to explain that everyone is a little different...but i was silly to think that i would be able to approach that conversation in a positive manner. and now, for my "sincerest" apologies.
i'm sorry, that in the back of the CHILDREN'S store that we were all in (looking for a bargain), that i replied in a semi-sarcastic tone to your question.
you really did NEED to know how to discriminate between the girl clothes and the boy clothes.
my answer of, "i guess i just look for blue or pink," was obviously not helpful.
but then again, i'm also very sorry that i hadn't put in my application to work there a few weeks prior, been interviewed and provided with that position that was posted on the doorway and then been TRAINED in customer service techniques; so that i would be more equipped to answer your question.
i, honestly, just was there shopping for some games to put in my daughter's hand-me-down thingamajig that you can no longer buy cartridges and books for. so, therefore, i had ventured into said store to buy outdated learning materials for MY daughter. so sorry, i guess i didn't make it obvious that i wasn't an employee. i should have been breastfeeding - not just carrying - my 11 month old in a sling and i maybe should have been more obviously singing, "i'm shopping ... i'm shopping" while slinging my purse over my shoulder or maybe, possibly, i should have just said "i don't work here".
it really was my fault, that i wasn't obvious enough as to my status within the shop.
i know that my pink vs. blue comment really bothered you when you decided to go and complain about my professionalism to the ACTUAL employees, who were also really disgusted that one of the employees would have provided you with that comment.
and then when someone officially directed you to what you were looking for, i'm sorry that the store was closing (i should have been striving harder to become ceo of the company) and that one of my fellow employees actually mentioned that you should start making your way to the front of the store.
and super sorry that she wasn't the appropriate "race" for the job of providing you with this information.
you had every right to start swearing and making racial comments in front of the children.
if you don't teach them, who will??
i do have to say, i owned up to the pink/blue comment with my superiors...and after you left i was harshly punished.
i was fired, in fact.
i won't be working there anymore.
but then again, after you left - they mentioned hoping that you never come in there again either.
me, i don't care where you shop...i just hope that something in your life has improved since this very frustrating day that you stumbled into my
(and my mom still swears that you walked out with a pair of pants)
--regretfully yours, jen
p.s. and i venture to bet that you are currently steaming about our PRESIDENT-ELECT, huh??